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Old Feb 28, 2018, 04:42 PM
Anonymous57777
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Originally Posted by Morgonstar100 View Post
Hi.
And now he has cut Contact for over a week. He wrote somehting about he did not have the energy to discuss with me, he had to focus on his training. I let him be for a week but I am heartbroken and want to talk to him, I Think he wants to leave me. In that case I will accept but I need to get a closure or final talk, so he can say it out in the air. Or is he just angry and use this as a punishment?

I can hardly Think about something else and misses him so much and at the same time I am so hurt that he reads my messages but does not answer at all. So long time now.

Were supposed to live together, felt he was my soul mate and we have had so great times also. I feel like my Life will be over if he leaves me, but I know it is not true, I know I will heal and possible it is the best for us.

But first thing first.
How do I stop this silent treatment?
I want to know, are we over or not.
You have wrote how he has a need to be in control. You cannot make him stop the silent treatment--if you look at everything you just wrote--he and only he will decide when that will happen. He has said his training comes before your feelings and you have said his anger is unjust.

You are hooked on him and have said your life will be over without him but it is already subject to his whims (the fights will continue). Is he worth all the fights? The fights will continue unless he is truly sorry--not just saying what he has to in order to get what he wants/be in control....
Thanks for this!
12AM, graystreet