OMG you have got to be kidding me??!! I had no idea it could take THAT long. This makes me feel so much worse because we need extra money so much. My mental state cannot stand staying where we are, so we still want to plan to move. I know the area has a slightly higher cost of living, but I’ll be closer to my psychiatric providers, now that my new doctor wants me to start seeing a therapist at Duke as well. Did you use an attorney? I am going to get one now, I was hoping it could make the process go faster. But that is ridiculous, I can’t bear to think it will take that long for us. I just cannot take this stress anymore, I feel like there is nothing of me left.