So sorry Whoknows, As an addict myself, clean for 17 years I can say give this man some tough love. I would not put up with his habits. I am sure you are happy you will be having twins, but I feel bad if they are going to have a father like your hubby. If this man wants to get clean he will if not nothing you can do believe me. You may have to put up with a little drama from him but there are always restraining orders. You say he got mad cause you would not give him money for weed, but the behaviors you describe, being late, leaving at night all indicate cocaine or some other heavy duty drug! I am sorry you have to be in that situation, but please be strong! Im keeping good thoughts for you