Book smarts does not equate to a good psychiatrist. All of them have book smarts otherwise they would not qualify to be a psychiatrist. If she can't listen to you about side effects from medications then what else can't she hear. Anybody can google side effects for abilify and see that weight gain is a possible side affect.

Being a good p'doc means that they can at least try to understand their clients.

I am pleased that you are trying to find another p'doc. Fingers crossed for you too.