[QUOTE=Msilva;6036328]Hi All,

Verry important - he is super shy, has trouble starting anything with girls, he is very sensitive, did say to me that he had many problems with being rejected in the past, took 5 years to get over his first girlfriend, has assumed just now that he realised that he has always been ashamed to declare his feelings to someone - he assumed just now that there it is something he needs to work on. I am on the chubby side (but very pretty face) and he is very skinny. His main work with his therapist is on his self-esteem, he has big issues. His father, two brothers and some of his friends were bullies.
Does the above info make any difference?

Please be blant, I need it.[/QUOTE

It doesn’t make any difference where you are concerned. He outright told you he doesn’t feel romantic toward you.

As for him, there can be a lot of things really going on. But that’s his problem with himself, and for him to figure out for himself.