When you took a break from your T, he may have felt that it was bc of him, and he may think he pushed you too far, and don't want to go over your space again, and is trying to protect your space. I also believe all of you that have a male T are very strong. I couldn't have one. I have a very difficult time being around some men. I won't even watch Dr, Phill, he gives me the creeps, LOL