In general I do believe T hears and understands where I am coming from. There is one area I struggle though.. T had a very stained relationship with here mother and most siblings. So she broken off contact with them. Growing up I had an amazing relationship with my mom and siblings. About 3 years ago I had to cut my brother out of my life. It has been a HUGE struggle for me. It was not something I wanted to do but T convinced me I had to do. I still struggle emotionally with it. I don't think T understands why I struggle so much. I often wonder if it is because by the time she broke away from her family she was ready and never had a close relationship with them. It is very frustrating.