What happened, when I was reading your post I got to the bit that said: </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
They have their agenda which in turn is the government's agenda and any problems are to be glibly and dismissively swept ahead.
Beep the fact of how it might make some people feel worse trying to live up to this agenda which is less about meeting the needs of the individual client than it is about imposing what is dictated to be good for the client.


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and I thought, bet thats England, and, low and behold, I looked at where you were from..................
I know everywhere's got its f...ed upness, but ......... I guess we've got our own speciality.

that wanting to retreat into feotal posion, I get that too, and I allow mysefl to do it for a while it I'm at home, it seems to somehow be necassary and the right thing to do. Its not ideal, .... I know.
How to survive in groups, ............. ? it is about surviving I guess and I always underestimate the human daftness that goes on........ so I'm trying to take it into account... but sometimse it doesnt feel realistic to switch off ones feelings iether, so, I understand, I think, what you're experiencing, havent cracked it myself .........yet.........!

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