It sounds like alongside wanting companionship, you want a partner to help you with financial things so you can move into a place of your liking? Wanting a partner for their money is not a good base for a relationship. I would highly encourage you to perhaps lower your housing standards a bit, and look for a cheap bachelor or 1 bedroom apartment to rent, or even a place with a roommate. Work on becoming self-sufficient, without the help of a man.