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Originally Posted by Hopingtrying
You have wrote how he has a need to be in control. You cannot make him stop the silent treatment--if you look at everything you just wrote--he and only he will decide when that will happen. He has said his training comes before your feelings and you have said his anger is unjust.
You are hooked on him and have said your life will be over without him but it is already subject to his whims (the fights will continue). Is he worth all the fights? The fights will continue unless he is truly sorry--not just saying what he has to in order to get what he wants/be in control....  |
Thanks for being straight forward. Yes I know. If it was not for our history it would be easier, so I tend to forgive his behviour. True that you can't have the fights continuing. Since he get help outside now it could also be that he does not need me anymore, and that feels awful of course. But I will try live my Life by myself (I tried to reach him again and finally he answered,but still said that ocd training did not work after emotionally storms so we could not discuss anything. Well. My feelings are all over the Place and I just need 5 minuits I said but that did not help. So. No. there are no room for my feelings in this relation anymore.