That is why I am trying so hard to do this the right way but she gives ultimatums and I usually fight her by going with her ultimatum. She's always taken me back in the past, but I fear she won't be around to do it in the future. She's older, health isn't great. My dad died 13 years ago. I'm lucky my mom is still around giving me hell. I'm trying hard to save money up and than move out so I'll be more stable. But my car is old, my job is iffy, and no matter what I save it'll get spent on likely car repairs or replacement or even moving.