Hi mountainstream

I am sorry you were told that but I'm also glad you were angry about it..........because absolutely it says everything about them and nothing about you..........it shows their ignorance of your good qualities...........and everyone will have good qualities as far as I'm concerned.
So again, I'm sorry for you being told that, but real kudos to you for not internalising it and stick with people who do care, like plenty of people on here

Alison