Thank you. Yes I understand that question.
It is because somewhere I feel that he is sick, and that I have caused him to feel bad.
But you are right. My soul mate should not have written that, even it has history behind the feelings.
Amd I did write that it was not OK to write that , especially sinse I just have buried a parent the day Before but he could probably not see his own behaviour, just my "disrespectful" behaviour. Yes I am bit angry now, my Days goes from angry to heartbroken back and forth.

Thanks for pointing that out like the other wise people, the problem is not the silence treatment it is something more.

But I need him to stop this to be able to talk to him even if we break up.