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Originally Posted by nottrustin
In general I do believe T hears and understands where I am coming from. There is one area I struggle though.. T had a very stained relationship with here mother and most siblings. So she broken off contact with them. Growing up I had an amazing relationship with my mom and siblings. About 3 years ago I had to cut my brother out of my life. It has been a HUGE struggle for me. It was not something I wanted to do but T convinced me I had to do. I still struggle emotionally with it. I don't think T understands why I struggle so much. I often wonder if it is because by the time she broke away from her family she was ready and never had a close relationship with them. It is very frustrating.
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That would be frustrating. Sometimes I think it’s better to have a t with no experience of your issues because they really try to understand your experience and push their own onto you.
Sometimes I think my t is far too different to ever understand me. She often says we can only take our clients as far as we have been. Then how can she take me anywhere because she has never been to where I have been no where near there.