umm, kind of
But see, for me, no one died .. They're just not longer in my life. I was just really (emotionally) hurt by this "mother-figure" - not actually a relative - and for reasons I don't care to talk about, her an I no longer have contact. Well, I should say, that she doesn't feel the need to contact me anymore.
does this make more sense?
Sorry for all the confusion/me misunderstanding