You get to take as many breaks as you want in therapy the same way you get to stop therapy whenever you want, your therapist has no say in any of this and he certainly doesn't get to feel hurt and needy that you "broke up with him" (sorry that's what it sounds like from his part). You are a client and paying for a service, you're not supposed to care about your therapist's feelings. This guy sounds needy AF. And now he's punishing you? Ugh. Red flags everywhere.