So a little background here:
I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years, and I am 12 weeks pregnant with his child (our only child). He lives in the UK while I live in the USA, but we see each other every year. We have a rocky relationship, as I distrust him because I recently found out he cheated on me and is a compulsive liar, both he has admitted to.
Yesterday we had a falling out because I refused to get in a political debate/argument with him, he was going on and on about politics and I didn’t want to be involved, so he accused me of being a fence sitter.
He proceeded to attack me about various subjects to incite a reaction from me because I wouldn’t debate. I was too stressed by this point and I was dealing with morning sickness. So he continues to go off on me for 10 minutes afterward because I will not argue with him. He insists I argue, but I just didn’t want to. That frustrated him. So he rants at me for 10 minutes straight and I didn’t reply throughout his rant because I thought it was just hateful.
He started to bring our kid into it randomly. He started making up crazy things about what kind of mother I will potentially be. He even brought up custody. I’m 12 weeks pregnant, mind you, and I hadn’t broken up with him at this point, nor was any of what he was saying applicable. He decided to make up these scenarios. He texted crazy things to me for two hours! What is going onnnn?
I’m just confused.
I appreciate any advice!!
Last edited by Anonymous59786; Mar 02, 2018 at 12:54 PM.
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