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I completely understand it's his body, but what's bothering me is that he asks me if it's okay first and when I tell him I'm uncomfortable about it, he'll just basically keep whining about how he wants it and even went as far to say my opinions/reasons against it were stupid.
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I do this often. I ask for someone’s opinion and if they disagree it just strengthens my own. Kind of like reverse psychology. If i am hesitant about wanting to do something and someone tells me i shouldn’t do it then i will become more determined to do that thing. Im not trying to be rude when i ask only to reject them, im asking more for myself, not to intentionally hurt their feelings. Not sure if that makes sense.