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Originally Posted by XXIV
So a little background here:
I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for 6 years, and I am 12 weeks pregnant with his child (our only child). He lives in the UK while I live in the USA, but we see each other every year. We have a rocky relationship, as I distrust him because I recently found out he cheated on me and is a compulsive liar, both he has admitted to.
Yesterday we had a falling out because I refused to get in a political debate/argument with him, he was going on and on about politics and I didn’t want to be involved, so he accused me of being a fence sitter.
He proceeded to attack me about various subjects to incite a reaction from me because I wouldn’t debate. I was too stressed by this point and I was dealing with morning sickness. So he continues to go off on me for 10 minutes afterward because I will not argue with him. He insists I argue, but I just didn’t want to. That frustrated him. So he rants at me for 10 minutes straight and I didn’t reply throughout his rant because I thought it was just hateful.
He started to bring our kid into it randomly. He started making up crazy things about what kind of mother I will potentially be. He even brought up custody. I’m 12 weeks pregnant, mind you, and I hadn’t broken up with him at this point, nor was any of what he was saying applicable. He decided to make up these scenarios. He texted crazy things to me for two hours! What is going onnnn?
I’m just confused.
I appreciate any advice!!
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Are these text messages from him? if these are his responses, I am sincerely sorry for both of you....
My only advice, which you should probably have done so long time ago, is to leave him. It is not my place to question as to why you chose to be in this dysfunctional relationship for six years (while only seeing him few times a year) and why you decided to have a child with someone who does not live in the same place and who cheated on you. I am sorry but I cannot see how he will ever be a positive influence in your and your child's life.
I am sorry, I cannot comprehend this behavior at all. It seems self destructive and I am not sure why you are choosing to be with him. I believe that some self reflection will benefit you.