((((((((Krazibean)))))))

I would be upset too if my T and I had decided to talk about an email or topic and then she didn't remember it. If I mentioned in a letter/email that I wanted to talk about something or asked a specific question, she has always raised the issue or attempted to answer my question right at the beginning of the session. I am very thankful that she doesn't make me ask the questions again. This makes me feel like she respects my questions and appreciates the fact that I raised them in writing because I was uncomfortable asking them directly.

If she ignored, forgot, made me ask repetitively for answers, I would personally view this as disrespectful. Maybe this is because of my age and the types of questions I need answered. I expect a professional to listen, remember, and respond directly to my questions/issues.

I can understand why you are upset. I would be too.