You're not alone sincity and I applaud you for sharing so much of yourself. Sexuality can be so confusing to some, like us.

I'm struggling with my own sexuality and T and I talk about it quite often. I had a very interesting conversation with my husband this weekend about how I feel I am bisexual.

I've had some minor experiences but honestly until therapy, it was all pushed deep down inside of me. Now I'm married with a child and trying to figure it all out. It is very distressing at times.

At least now my husband is aware of where my thoughts are and he still loves me. He said it is easier to think of me being attracted to women than another guy...go figure!

I'm no closer to answers though because I can't really pursue a different life with a husband and child who I put first before me.

I was abused but not by a woman and I'm not sure if that is always a precursor to sexual identity. My T is gay and he wasn't abused. Plenty of people are a different orientation and were not abused.

Having said that, it adds to confusion for sure if you are abused. It is a very complex topic and because of you, I felt able to share some of this tonight.

Thanks!