I experience my own feelings of hurt. I don't feel the T has hurt me. But I've felt hurt. The hurt that I've felt all my life from my childhood gets rexperienced when it hooks, in to something that happens in therapy. It Doesbt bother me in the way some here seem to be effected by it. I feel safe enough with T to know I can own it and talk about it and get through it and know I always come through stronger.