I do not want to sound like I am being rude, I am not that way at all, however you deserve much much better. Without knowing either of you, I can tell you that you do not deserve to be treated this way by him or anybody else. We all deserve to be treated with respect. You need to respect yourself enough to get away from this guy. He apparently doesn't respect you or love you or he wouln't treat you the way he does. His family probably knows this already that is why things are the way they are between them. He is destroying your self esteem, your self confidence to the point you do not look people in the eyes, you have pushed everyone away, this is what happens to women then the husband has control of them totally because they think they are not worth any better and can not do any better so they stay. I can not see any reason that you would marry this guy, you don't need him to take care of you. As for your family you can not take care of them or their needs even if this guy is going to be a lawyer with lots of money, he doesn't sound like the type to help someone else, if that is what your family wants for you, that is very so and you should tell them that and they should move in with him and you will check back with them later and see how it is working out for them, that you are moving on with your life that you deserve better.
Sorry if this sounds harsh but if it helps stops another woman from being ABUSED then its all good.
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