Sunrise thank you for responding.

No he is not dealing with his depression at the moment. He has decided that he no longer has depression. That he merely has "marital conflict".

In august he took himself off of his Wellbutrin cold turkey. Last month his PDoc helped him wean off of his Effexor because he feels he no longer wants or needs to take them. Since then he has become hypomanic and rageful. Punching walls, buying a car we cannot afford, not sleeping etc.

His individual T and his Pdoc have never met me. My husband claims it is their "advice" to have this situation. Our couples counselor who is in the same practice, told me on one of our separate sessions that my husband wouldn't attend, that he feels it is most definitely my husbands doing because the other T doesn't usually work that way. He also expressed that it is not how T is normally done when there is a supportive spouse involved.

As for the past, I'm not asking for it to be undone. I'm asking for it to be validated.