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Old Mar 04, 2018, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight View Post
Maybe? It's just that now I'm feeling better about him as my individual T, I don't want to risk messing that up. Like, what if he and H really hit it off and T starts seeing stuff more from his side of things? I know they're not supposed to do that, in theory--just worry how it would affect individual sessions. I am wondering if there could be any benefit to having him come in for a session or two. (T has mentioned possibly having my mom and/or dad in for a session--I assume he'd be open to H, too.)
I think it would be a very bad idea for him to be your marriage counselor, and I would be surprised if he would even agree to do both. My understanding is that most therapists won't. He might be able to give you a referral, though. However I have taken my wife to a couple of sessions for specific me-supporting reasons, and that was helpful.
Thanks for this!
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