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Originally Posted by Morgonstar100
Got a text that said that he does not feel well from all our fights and the discussions (jealousy) after what I have done. So he needs to get stronger before he can meet me.
I texted back and wrote that we did not have to see each other but I wanted to know if he felt like we are broken up, or if this was his way to break up, I asked so many times these weeks so I feel like a stalker but he does not reply for Days, and then only with the same answer.
So I feel it is over. I also feel something is not right here. Maybe he is really feeling ill and heartbroken. Or he is just playing me because he knows this is my biggest fear, that he Cuts Contact and Everything.
Well I have booked time with a phsycologist because this abandoning and heart breaking feeling I have mixed with guilt and questioning myself is driving me mad. I am like obsessed and I want out of it.
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If you love him, you will just accept what he has said (you say it is always the same answer) and let him go. You cannot make him love you or come back to you. Texting over and over when he did not reply likely drives him farther away. Love is a two way street. When love ends it feels bad but the sooner you accept it, the sooner you can get through the mourning process and move on with your life. Unless he initiates, stop talking to him. Let it go and if he initiates, only respond if it is a positive, love filled text or conversation. If your relationship is mostly negative, you need to move on.....