Do you think your T followed ethical codes in treating you ( APA)? I cant get the image of him meeting at the bookstore , and then sitting with you in the car out of mind. The things that scare you in the above list give him so much power.

Do you still want him to be your T
Do you feel he is professional and appropriate
Does he uphold his vow to DO NO HARM bc I am worried you might be harmed

I hope this turns out okay on Thursday!