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Originally Posted by SorryShaped
Let's roll it this way...
You find someone that looks exactly like you want. He has the background. You're hooked. You message him daily and tell him home much you like him. You really start to like him. You begin fantasizing a future together. He, months later, says, "I'm really looking for someone from Ohio. You just don't look attractive to me. I'm sorry. Bye."
Now how do you feel? Are you leading this guy on?
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Ok, totally get what you're saying. I feel super guilty about the whole thing. I have kept seeing him because I want to like him and I tell myself that I shouldn't have this cultural background requirement. I have been hoping that feelings would develop since he seems to be a match in a number of ways. I have avoided relationships my whole life and I'm scared that I'm letting a good one slip away. I'm a complete noob at dating/relationships.