I haven’t been able to sleep well for over a month I was taking trazadone at a high dose. My dr put me on seriquel instead it’s not working my primary dr but me on 1 mg Ativan it’s not stong enough and I don’t know how to tell him that I need something stronger. I’m now trying OTC Unisom and it kind of works but it just doesn’t make me tired and I wake up in the night. I’m always tired. I asked my psych. If he could just adjust my meds I was in he told me I was fine. Time to switch doctors I’ve been telling him for almost a year now. I’m now taking Valium Ativan and teaspoons of nutmeg to try to get some sleep to just relax enough to get to sleep. I’m too hyper and angry all the time. I can’t calm down I’m up till 2 - 4 in the morning trying to get tired enough to go to sleep. My fiancée has an I mpotance problem. Duh that should if been my first clue to run. He has barely touched me in ten years and just a couple time was successful, I mean just enough to last a minute. I’ve been very forcibly blunt about about our lack there of of our sexual relationship being non existent. He listened but didn’t say a word but just that he has to talk to his dr. Then he says that he has to lose 15 pounds before the dr will give him any pills to well you know fix it temporarily. But it’s not natural. He hadn’t seen me naked in over a year I’m not hideous I’m a relativity attractive 43 yr old female I do put up with a lot of his attitude and don’t try to start arguments he barely kissed me and says he feels more comfortable sleeping in the other bedroom so we slept separate for almost 2 months. He come up with excuses to why. Now he wants to go back to that other bed and is starting to come up with excuses to why. I don’t think he loves me any more and doesn’t know how to go about ending it. We not married but slot of things would have to change I don’t have the funds to leave and don’t know if I can make it in my own