Capgut, I relate to what you say very much. Your T having a second baby DOES impact you, and does suck his attention - it is a stage of life that is often fraught with exhaustion and conflict inside a marriage. It isn't aways( usually) romantic and happily-ever-after; He probably wants to get out of that house and get to work! Even though I know all this too well, I am still jealous of my T's wife. What makes me fee better, is reflecting on how difficult marriage is- long ones- and how much kids vampire energy even while giving joy. I think your T's time with you he will often prefer to the long struggle of meeting babies and wife's needs.I truly do.