No problem. I think the issue of the parents own behaviour is secondary to that of the original poster's.

The OP stated their behaviour was undesirable.
The OP stated that they expected to be treated with dignity and respect.
The OP suggested they were 'owed' money (I interpreted this as spending money).

I cry foul at this. Why does the OP expect these things if, as they themselves indicated, they may not have been deserving.

My point is that you reap what you sow. Respect is something earned - as is, I suggest, money. Hence, my encouragement that the OP do something to do so.

I find this whole thing a case of the pot calling the kettle black.