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Old Mar 06, 2018, 06:09 PM
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Originally Posted by SummerTime12 View Post
Does your t tell you why they’re taking a certain approach with you or using a certain technique, and explain what it is? Do you feel them sharing/not sharing this helps or hinders you getting better? My current t does tell me what he is doing and why, and I like that he does it. My other Ts never did. I think it helps me trust him and trust the process more. A lot of times I already know why he said something, but I still appreciate him being open with me.


He has suggested approaches to something.

He doesn’t really “explain” the direction he’s going and I like that. I feel safe in following his lead/direction.

It kind of feels like, if he explained everything my analytical part would come forward and would cause much stress in trying to figure it out.

ETA: I wanted to add that if he suggests something, he always give me the right to say, “I think that’s a horrible idea.” and he respects that.
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