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Mar 06, 2018, 09:39 PM
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Member Since: Feb 2018
Location: In My Head
Posts: 35
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Originally Posted by stopdog
But this one, to me, did more than express disappointment that he had failed the client, he also acted in a punishing manner to the client.
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Yes, you are right, it was more than an expression of disappointment. He did behave in a sometimes harsh and punishing manner. I think we were caught up in a reenactment that he was unfortunately blind to. And I think his own attachment issues played a part in it as well. And although I am very hopeful and wish that this works out with him, I am also very cautious. It's my nature. I am giving it 3 months. And after that, despite this intense attachment that I feel, if I don't feel that things have changed to my satisfaction, I will terminate with him. And I will grieve.
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