I'm so tired of women being told, and it's usually if not always women, they need to look at porn in order to know what men like and that maybe they will also come to love it. No. I am against porn, not because of some religious reason, because I'm not into that stuff, or anything like that. Women who hate porn don't need to be talked into liking it, and they are not deficient in any way. It more than borders on abuse to suggest there's something she's doing wrong, or not doing, and to center on what he says he ' needs '. To the OP, if you don't like it, understand that he will continue to lie about it, so you will need to decide what you can honestly accept. This is a tough one, because on one side of one coin there's the ' don't be a prude ! ', and on the other side there's the religious ' morality ' stuff. You get to decide if you are not okay with it. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Good luck.
* eta - masturbation isn't an issue
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