Sure a huge chunk of porn is centered around male domination and control over the woman and most of this type of material is geared toward the majority of straight males. Not saying all straight males will find this sort of content appealing, but a huge chunk do, otherwise the market wouldn't be catering to it. Is it degrading to women? Sometimes the situations the actresses are put in can be abusive in all, and I agree, that sort of stuff will have no place in my life.

However, the beauty of porn is the shear variety and there is something for everyone who has interest in watching the stuff. Not saying everyone has to partake either. If it's not for you, then don't partake. Simple enough. I'm not going to go on a "pro porn" rant here, but I do like to watch it. That's all I'll say.

Now, as for the OP, if you don't like porn, and have issues with your husband watching it, then maybe going to couples counsling to help you openly communicate to each other about the situation is needed.

I'm sorry you feel so disrespected, but know that porn as a strong allure and caters to the pleasure centers of our brains, well, for those of us who enjoy watching it that is. It's like doing anything else that will trigger this pleasure center and we soon hunger for more of this sensation of pleasure. For some, this becomes an insatiable addiction, and other's a regular activity that doesn't detract from life in any way. Stopping this cold turkey is like stopping smoking cold turkey and can be rather hard to do. Relapses are going to happen, but that's sometimes the way things go when you try and stop doing an activity that's become an addiction.

I hope you two find a happy solution to your problem.