Just curious do you understand those without autism or asperger's any better than they understand you?

Knowing & understanding is a two way street. Most people have no idea a person is aspie or not & usually people don't go around waving a flag that says "I'm aspie research it so you know why I am the way I am"

I agree that close family should research to understand but even researching doesn't always explain exerything or give a good understanding because being aspie isn't a cookie cutter thing....the spectrum is broad & so are the different behaviors so it is not always easy to tell what is aspie behavior or not. Kinda difficult to get a good understamding of something like thst when even T's don't have that kind of knowledge or understanding