By all means if the sound of a baby crying is driving him to the brink of insanity, reach out for every and any service that you can find. My state has a 211 line to call, I don't imagine your state being any less progressive than the one I live in. You shouldn't have to worry about your child while at work. Does your baby have colic? Acid reflux? An allergy?

Can you sign up for a child care circuit?

What's going on with your husband? What's creating this overwhelming reaction from him? Is there any substance use with him? What type of work does he do?