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Mar 08, 2018, 02:37 AM
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I don't have any words of wisdom. It sounds like you were cautious going into this...spending so long getting to know him as a friend and all. I don't think this was an issue of the long distance, as a person IRL could do just as much to you. It just sounds like he played you. And that he was very good at it.
I wouldn't worry about legal action. You two were in a a relationship, and he clearly was communicating with you freely up until you caught him. He can't just start claiming stalker because he got caught cheating and you confronted him.
I honestly didn't see any of the BPD in your story other than you mentioning you have BPD. I don't think this was an issue of your symptoms getting the better of you. I think any person would have reacted the way you did, wanting to know the truth.
Sorry everything turned out this way.
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Primary Dx: C-PTSD and Severe Chronic Treatment Resistant Major Depressive Disorder
Secondary Dx: Generalized Anxiety Disorder with mild Agoraphobia.
Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
Treatments I've done: CBT, DBT, Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS), Talk therapy, psychotherapy, exercise, diet, sleeping more, sleeping less...
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