This idea occurred to me a couple of weeks ago.
Let it NO.
I guess it's the non-action version of Let it Go. Here's a riff,
Let it no in 3 words shows inner permission to set a yes/no line. Right now, for example, the 'temporary' filter file I set up when I went on vacation for my in-mail has probably 2k messages. Every once and a while I check in, but for the moment I don't feel I have the mindwidth to cull it. So I'm letting it pile up, and letting myself Let it No.
I had other plans this week than my partner. She went to a remarkable poetry reading ... I went to a lecture/concert event. She's thinks I should have been at the reading. Perhaps. But, I hold no fear of missing out, no regrets. Was I there? No. Thus, I'm letting it no.
I watch people sometimes do a double take when I don't agree with them. Especially on my projects where I'm aware I have more knowledge or experience and they are asking for a change that violates the integrity of the service or product. No. They come back at different times, different angles, different tones of voice. It's still no. I describe/explain best I can why (without delving into the years of trial and success/error that brought me to my decision) and still I have to say, No. Once I went on for maybe 90 seconds and even said. That's the longest 'no' I've said in my life.
Get it, let it 'no' people! We have other work to do.
No is a terrific help to keeping the mojo working. Use it well & wisely.
Let it no, let it no, let it no,
Revu2
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