I have been with my husband for 6 years (dating for 4 years). I love him dearly but sometimes it is so hard on me. He is high functioning, loving and has a good career but always put himself down and says that we are not doing enough. I work extremely hard and so does he, but this is what I can offer. I feel that I am not enough for him and it happens at least once a week. His either locked up in his room or takes all his anger out on me. I don't know how to take it anymore. I am starting to feel incompetent, suicidal and sad. I need advise.

- his taking medications
- his overweight and doesn't want to exercise
- his taking blood pressure and cholesterol pills

- feeling overwhelmed