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Sex has it's importance..there's a connectivity there that we have been lacking for awhile now.

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If the connection isn't there emotionally, then trust me, it won't be there sexually either.

If you're relationship with your husband is badly damaged, don't expect sex as a means of connection. Most of the time the emotional piece has to be repaired before the sexual one can even begin to resume.