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Old Mar 08, 2018, 07:49 PM
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Originally Posted by SorryShaped View Post
You should be enlightened. You can learn so much from all this. I certainly would not say or do anything to him. You need to work on you before you try with anyone else, please.
Yes, absolutely.

I'm not planning on saying or doing anything to him; I'm just concerned he's going to try and use our bad breakup against me, because he thinks it will affect my job.

In my T appointment today, she was shocked at some of the scenarios I told her about. I was shocked that I didn't recognize they were a problem. He really had me snowed. It doesn't feel like a regular breakup; it doesn't feel as though I was rejected. It runs deeper; I was, essentially lied to for years. I question myself, my judgment, my intelligence. I know I'm not stupid, I just got caught up with a very good manipulator. Like my friend said, the only thing I was guilty of with it was liking a guy, and wanting him to like me back. But I can know all of that intellectually, and still feel in my heart that I'm the one to blame.
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