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Old Mar 09, 2018, 09:15 AM
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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton View Post
Her trip is a long one. We can hang out at work or on the phone. I feel like she feels she has to pay me back for helping her out at work and truly I don't want her to feel that way. not like she doesn't have enough work to do. But if truly she wants to hang out sure.. but I don't feel like that is it.. I feel like it is an "I owe you situation."
It could be that she feels she owes you. Don’t know. She maybe wants to meet half way. No clue.

I think I just have different understanding of word “friend”. I hang out with my friends. Such as spend time. If I just see a person at work or talk on the phone, I consider them just coworkers or acquitances. I think that’s where my confusion come from.