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Originally Posted by divine1966
Unbelievable. My brother once told me that it’s not embarrassing to be a good trusting person. It’s however embarrassing to be an a$$hole. So who needs to be embarrassed is this awful person.
When someone visits you from out of town and things go sour and person wants to leave, any decent person would make sure that the visitor is safely on his or her way. Only total a$$hole would do what he did leaving you somewhere stranded at night.
I also want to tell you that people like him are good at tricking others. So it’s not that unusual to fall for such people. They are THAT good.
Oh yeah everyone did them wrong and abused them.
I know someone who had charges pressed against her for assaulting people, was fired from every job she had for inappropriate behaviors on the job, no one in her family including her kids speaks to her yet she sings to the tune of “everyone did me wrong” her whole life. Yup this jerk likely tells everyone how you stalked him. But truth always comes out at the end.
It didn’t take you too long. You’ve met him twice and knew before even seeing him second time that he is an *****.
Good job escaping
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Thank you.
Yes, my friends told me that they couldn't believe, even in regards to the fight we had in Knoxville (it was pretty bad), they couldn't understand how a grown man of 46 would leave a woman stranded when she was plainly saying she was ready to get her things and get the hell out. He was threatening me even then with a police report. He told me, while I was sitting on a bench in Knoxville sobbing and begging him to pick me up (a homeless woman sitting next to me, trying to help me find a way back to Maryville), that he'd already filed one. I said no you didn't. Not in Maryville, TN on a Sunday night you didn't.
He told me, when I was in the Uber, that since it was so late and I had a 10 hour drive, I could sleep on the couch. Then he left me in his hallway to bang on the door, pleading and texting him for 4 hours. He was awake. I saw his light on until 3am. I now believe he was just storing up texts, and recording me. I slept in the car because I was pretty overwhelmed, got a hotel room for that following night because, by then, I'd been awake for 24 hours.
I honestly wouldn't put it past him to file charges against me. He's that big of a jerk, with that big of a need to come out on top--and I just rolled the proverbial log over and found allllll the bugs I'd accused him of being there, but which he thought he'd successfully hidden from me. He knows I'm not unintelligent, and if I found K, I know about E, and I know he was sleeping with N last year. He's a covert narcissist--even my T agrees. And that's why I'm afraid. I didn't record him. I didn't save any of the texts, or any of his communication. And he knows that. I can't prove his abuse. The only thing I have in front of a judge is to say that we were in a relationship, this man was manipulative and abusive, and I was broken down by the time things ended. I am no longer contacting him. But with the abuse and finding out the lies, and then feeling also like I'd been exposed because of his lack of using a condom, yeah, I went a little ballistic. I feel like it's just a breakup gone really bad, but I know he'll spin it and I could get into a lot of trouble.