nothing like insult upon injury huh? the great challenge is to process what happened and be able to move on with your life kind of matter o factly...basicly coming to terms with it, something on the order of "it happened, he's a creep, and my dad chose his wife over me." I choose to no longer have them in my life and perhaps some day will be able to feel pity for them instead of what I feel now,best of luck there. God Bless You...