So she came over and we talked... it was tough. I figured she didn't want to hear she was in the wrong but she kind of is.

Basically for most of her job life she has been in charge and basically able to do things her way. But now, she isn't. And I get that she has a major stubborn streak and doesn't seem willing to try to conform to what her boss wants. As they say, she is either unwilling or unable.

Most of her arguments just kept reminding me that we are not equivalent at all.

She reminded me that her job has actually changed so less work is given to her and more to me... yet she still has problems. She reminded me that I have never been so much as given an oral warning in my job, she has been cited for insubordination and was once suspended without pay. She reminded me she gets up for work daily at 7 AM to make a 9 am start time, while I get up at 5:30 to make an 8:30 start time and usually am late due to the train I am forced to take, though she gets to park in a parking garage and walk in. If I am late I have to stay late to make up the time.

Every word out of her mouth kind of annoyed me.

I know that she would not respond well to being taken to task on this so I am not going to.

And for all of this.. she got a cash award.