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Old Mar 11, 2018, 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Miguel'smom View Post
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My husband and I got into a huge fight over what to have for dinner. He wants to go to a restaurant but we don't have money for that. I have to come up with $700 that my insurance won't pay by next month. I only make $750, I have no idea how I'm going to do this. His feeling is if we can't find the money oh well he wont go to the appointment. Uh, no that's not how this works. So of course after he huffs to bed. I'm stuck with the feeling our arguments over eating out are going to get worse. Especially because I don't want to eat and he wants to eat out all the time. I can't even compromise because now he's sleeping and I'm left to figure out what's for dinner. He explodes then he's drained and goes to bed leaving me here holding everything. I always waver but I'm not this time. I have to just let him have his hissy fit and try to ignore it. It's one of those things that I don't know who's right, who's ED is controlling things. I just want to leave everything and not come back. Including PC. just vanish.
I remember what a struggle it was being married and arguing over things like what to eat for dinner. So unpleasant. Please be safe and remember that doing something destructive on impulse will only make the situation worse. If you resist, you can focus on a solution to the problem with your husband. If you give in, you'll only create another problem on top. Be strong and be well! Hugs, Jane.
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