....but IMHO even an open mind might not be wise.... Sky.
PS I'm not a mod either. The members here all look out for one another and try to remind each other when we get close to, or cross a line that might affect another member adversely. You'll get the hang of it. Most new members are so used to being attacked on other boards, they are defensive when they come here. I'm sorry if you don't feel quite accepted yet, but you are!