i am sorry you are experiencing depression.
It sounds like you are managing the responsibilities in a way that's helpful to you.

That's all you can do.
I wish I had very helpful suggestions to offer, but I don't.
Maybe someone will come along with suggestions.
I am very depressed and am taking a prescribed stimulant, trying to find a way to get something done. A stimulant might be too energizing for you?
I hope your depression passes soon.

WC