I'm in complete agreement with nothemomma - putting a child into the position of being the end all do all for your marriage issues is not the way to go. That child would be doomed from the start with guilt should he/she find out they were soley brought upon this earth to fix your marriage. Wouldn't that be a horrible thing to place on a child??

I do so hope you reconsider this idea. There are plenty of other ways to fix your marriage (one way or another) without putting the weight onto a baby.


sabby